How does it make you feel if I tell you that there is no way you can make a bad decision? I bet the first thing that comes to mind is, that’s nuts, people make bad decision all the time. So, what the heck am I talking about here? Is there a magic formula, a tool you need to use, a program you need to take, a special thing you have to do? No. All you need to do is know that the right decision lies within you, only you.
I can give you questions to ask, ways you should feel, things to consider, but - only you are living your life, only you have had your experiences, and only you know what it is that makes you happy. Trust how you feel more than what you think, because perception can be tricky, but true feelings don’t lie.
The truth of the matter is, you can only make a decision based on all you have at hand at the particular moment in which you are deciding. Fear of making a wrong decision will be paralyzing, yet no decision in and of itself is actually a decision.
It’s your choose, and if you follow your inner guidance, choose what brings you peace, choose what brings you happiness and choose with your heart, not your head.
I think as we grow and our awareness grows, our opinions change. This does not mean that you were wrong in the past. All it means is that what you believed in the past was your understanding with the knowledge you possessed at that moment. This is a new moment.
We fear making a bad decision, because perhaps one we made in the past didn’t turn out the way we expected. Ever consider, maybe it helped you learn a lesson you needed to learn? Obviously you didn’t blow up or disintegrate by making a bad decision, because you are still here to read this! And… you are an experience wiser with more knowledge under your belt. Do not allow yourself to get stuck in guilt because that guilt only keeps you in ego and blocks your connection to Source.
Trust your heart and instincts and you can’t make a bad decision.